Wed Night message on relationship building 1. don't nag 2. never criticize 3. don't magnify differences 4. arguing never works 5. show respect for others' opinions 6. if you're wrong admit it 7. be a good listener 8. remember that actions that are praised are actions that are repeated 9. appreciate the small things 10. show interest in what interests them 11. be curteous 12. learn to laugh